Domestic Violence and Abuse
Recognize the Signs and Find Support
Domestic violence can affect anyone—even in families that seem strong or loving on the surface.
According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, abuse is rooted in the abuser’s desire to gain and maintain control over their partner. Abusive individuals often feel entitled to dominate the relationship, believing their needs and emotions should come first. They use manipulation, intimidation, and other tactics to erode equality, leaving their partner feeling devalued and powerless.
Abuse can happen to anyone. It crosses all boundaries of gender, age, race, sexual orientation, and income. If you're being abused by a partner, you may feel scared, confused, angry, or trapped—these are all normal responses to an abnormal situation. You may even find yourself questioning whether it’s somehow your fault. But abuse is never your fault. It's a deliberate choice made by the abuser, not something you cause or deserve.
Learn more from the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops:
Visit When I Call for Help for a faith-based perspective on domestic violence and guidance for those affected.
Workshops and Resources
The Family Life Office offers domestic violence prevention workshops in both English and Spanish. These workshops provide practical tools, including:
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Healthy communication techniques
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Conflict resolution skills
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Strategies for addressing risk factors and practicing self-protection
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Information on prevention resources
To schedule a workshop for your parish, please contact the Family Life Office at 505-831-8177.
You are not alone. Help is available.
If you are experiencing abuse, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233). Advocates are available to speak online Monday through Friday, from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m.
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